November 28th, 2006
The last two weeks - Part one…
Well, since even Elsie is telling me I need to blog (I’ve had others tell me in person - HA!) I figured that I would take some time on my flight back to Houston this morning to catch up…
I’m not exactly sure where the last two weeks went! Basketball season is in full swing and between that and Thanksgiving, I just never got around to blogging. Starting back on November 16th I was on the road for games three straight days — and unfortunately these are games that you have to drive to as the game fee does not allow for a flight! Thursday was Lamar State in Port Arthur - a relatively close assignment - then Wiley College in Marshall on Friday and Jacksonville College, in the city of the same name, on Saturday. So, those days pretty much flew by with me driving or sitting in a car — not exactly a great opportunity to blog! However, these long drives do provide a good time to catch up with officiating friends, so that was enjoyable.
Then, last week started off on a very sad note for me. When I woke up mid-morning I saw a ‘pin’ (a sort of BlackBerry text message) from Brendan. The subject read “Not good” and I didn’t even need to read the message, but I did and it confirmed what I already knew — that Julie’s chemo had not slowed her cancer (or Rufus as she calls it). Not good. Quite the understatement.
I talked to Brendan (Carrie would say of course I talked to him — she and Julie tease us that we are like girlfriends we talk so much — but, hey, we are both on Cingular and it’s free minutes!
) and he told me about the different treatment options and decisions that they had to make in the coming days. I told him, “I don’t know what to say.” and his response was simply, “I know — I don’t either.” There are simply no words for dealing with something like this.
So, I did the only thing I could do — I took the game that Brendan was scheduled to work that night — at least I could feel useful in some sense.
Please visit their blog at lyonsfamily.org and read the rest of their updates and leave them a comment of support, prayer, and encouragement. Julie started her treatment yesterday and will be staying at MD Anderson for the remainder of the week. With three kids — Hallie (6), Jack (3), and Kendall (~6 months) — that has to be pretty tough. And if you know Julie, you know that she is not the type of person to sit around — she is always doing something! So, leave a bunch of comments so she has something to read! ![]()
Part two will come later — other stuff happened last week and we got to spend some time with family and friends — but that all seems pretty trivial when compared to Rufus.
Hugs Jules.
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